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Until you see that beautiful woman and all of a sudden your chest locks up like a block of ice. Your heart is POUNDING in your ears because you KNOW you should be approaching her.
But you just can’t seem to take that step towards her. The next thing you know your mind is racing with a torrent of excuses.
She’s probably really busy.
Defeated, you walk away with your tail between your legs, cursed with this crippling disease that never seems to go away. You retreat home, giving yourself enough time to calm down and pray that things will be different tomorrow.
Or maybe you occasionally pluck up the courage to say hello but as soon as there’s an awkward pause in the conversation or she gives the slightest sign of disinterest, you quickly excuse yourself.
Maybe you find this social anxiety extends into other areas of your life, as you find yourself tense and unable to speak freely and connect with people at parties, work events or social situations where you aren’t in your comfort zone.
If any of this sounds familiar, you need to sit up and pay attention RIGHT NOW because I’m about to share something incredibly important with you…
Approach Anxiety isn’t some biological response that is hardwired into our DNA traced back to the caveman days. It is not some genetic defect that means every time you want to approach a girl you’re battling against the very forces of nature itself.
Despite what some pseudo-scientific theorists say, AA is not inevitable, it’s a choice.
The reality is that ‘Approach Anxiety’ is a myth created by the seduction community to justify the limitations that people place on themselves and to pitch snake-oil products to desperate men.
Perhaps you’ve already dabbled in trying to learn meditation. A lot of guys get lost in books filled with spiritual new-age hippy gibberish, or follow some video course promising to make you a Zen Monk in 5 minutes, complete with bells and weird chanting.
Or maybe you’ve tried quick fix Apps that promise to bring you inner peace in just a few minutes of following a guided meditation, which may give short term relief but don’t go below the surface to actually help you dig out complex issues.
…that is specifically designed for men who don’t want to ditch the modern world and live in a cave but who have busy lives and want to achieve a sense of inner peace, so that they can be more effective, relaxed and in flow, especially when meeting women.
Do you want to continue spending hours and hours of your life on the streets trying to hopelessly approach women, only to fall victim to your anxiety? Are you satisfied to only meet women when they come into your social circle?
Are you willing to continue investing hundreds (or even thousands!) of dollars into ‘approach anxiety cures’ which are essentially gimmicks, magic pills that don’t get results?
Do you want to dig through the mountains of confusing and often contrary advice floating around on the internet, or do you want to learn a simple proven system for self transformation and coming to peace with yourself?
Are you ready to finally stop trying to rationalize your way out of ‘Approach Anxiety’ and own up to what’s really going on?
You see, ‘Approach Anxiety’ is actually just a label you’ve placed on a series of sensations within your body that activate when you want to approach a woman. These sensations reacts with your psychology and emotions as you interpret them to mean fear.
In terms of feeling ‘Nervous’, ‘Anxiety’ and ‘Fear’ around women it’s important to understand that these are not real fears. There is no life threatening danger. It’s NOT a primal response to an existential threat. These are simply labels your mind uses to describe these sensations, to protect your ego and to encourage you to back away from the source of the “fear”.
I watch so many men who get into the seduction community fall flat on their face, never breaking through approach anxiety.
Even those that do muscle through with sheer will power often eventually quit because it always feels like a battle to build up the confidence and momentum to keep going.
You don’t have to be enlightened and listen to some old Indian guy chanting in a dead language to uncover the secrets of being ‘in the now’. With the right meditation technologies, you can integrate awareness into your normal routine and even learn to meditate at the same time as chatting up girls!
When you’re a prisoner of your thoughts and fears, it can be depressing to realize that you’re constantly locked in this cycle of overthinking and negative thoughts, without knowing how to break the loop. Trust me, I used to be the same…
“The world is fucked”
I was an outcast and on a track to burrowing deeper and deeper into my negativity, stopping me from connecting with anyone who didn’t feel the same way. The only girls I ever got were average hippy chicks who were content to listen to my rants about how the world was ‘out to get me’.
As all of my High School friends were going to University, I set out to find out why I was so angry and nihilistic and try and find a solution.
I got a job picking oranges at a plantation in rural Australia, eventually saving up enough money to travel through Asia with my friend to find some answers.
We ended up taking a whole bunch of magic mushrooms in Bali one night, tripping hard for two days. As I soared through the psychedelic cosmos I got a glimpse into a different part of myself, the version of me that didn’t have all of the negativity and narcissism. My ego and fears fell away, I was free, light hearted and in perfect creative flow.
Hours later as I crashed down to earth from the trip, I immediately felt all my old hang ups and worries reappear. I could see my ego, pride and negativity reform and I was back to square one. I thought to myself;
There HAS to be a way to
That I wasn’t a slave to the quirky personality traits I didn’t like, that I didn’t have to be angry and reactive, constantly succumbing to bouts of depression…
I came out feeling light, clear and possibly for the first time actually happy. I finally had tools for change, a way out of the constant negative loops I had always lived in.
Even though I was a broke naïve 19 year old fumbling his way across India, I knew this was the beginning of a powerful journey.
I now knew that it was possible for a man to become aware of his negativity, cynicism, sarcasm, and even crippling ‘approach anxiety’, all of these things that don’t actually help you in any way and just show you that you’re less capable and connected to people…
I knew that it was possible for a man to shift himself without spending months and years on a psychologist’s couch, recounting his childhood, mapping out how everyone else is to blame and turning himself into a victim…
I knew that it was possible for a man to take personal responsibility for his life and establish the confidence he needs to approach a woman and show who he REALLY is.
After my first meditation retreat, I did everything I could to deepen my awareness and understanding of these pivotal tools.
I became a vegetarian, found a Shaolin Kung Fu Martial Arts teacher, devoted myself to 4-5 hours of training a day 6 days a week, and spent the rest of my time meditating or working at a cafe to pay the bills.
I took my first trip to China where I was accepted by the world’s greatest masters of Kung Fu and Buddhism at the Shaolin Temple.
I woke up every morning at dawn and would climb the mountain behind the temple with my master and work on ancient forms of Kung Fu, meditation and philosophy.
As my focus in eastern practices intensified, I got into healing, studying Chinese medicine, oriental massage and acupressure. This intense period of focus and discipline had so many positive effects, including helping me to dissolve more layers of my childhood conditioning, learning how to consciously relax and have peace and a sense of satisfaction.
But in being so intense and rigid about my practice, I was also missing out on a lot, especially the worldly pleasures life has to offer. I was torn between my calling to be a full time spiritual warrior and my desires to chase girls and achieve worldly success.
So after my first trip to China I decided that before I moved permanently to China and became a real monk, I wanted to experience all the world had to offer. To bury myself in pleasure, sex and satisfy all my desires. So for a time, I swung in the total opposite direction, becoming a complete hedonist.
Even though I had been studying at the Shaolin Temple, the birthplace of the art form I was obsessed with, I returned home wanting to get all of my worldly desires out of my system. I moved to Melbourne, started a funk bad, got into wild partying and drugs, eventually getting into seduction so I could get laid more.
Now I’ve always been someone of extremes,
Within months I’d gone from zero cold approach experience, to being able to pick up hot women every time I went out.
Even though I was rapidly learning a lot about the mechanics and techniques of natural style seduction, the thing that made my progress accelerate so fast, was my background in meditation. All those hours practicing inner peace, had without realizing – taught me how to become very present, relaxed and in the moment when meeting women.
Even though I still felt the rush of physical sensations that most men would call anxiety, with my meditation tools I was able to dissolve these feelings, move through them and eventually rewire my mind so that those feelings became excitement and positive expectation rather than fear.
I became so effective with seduction that within 2 years I began teaching guys I met how to meet women naturally as well.
But it didn’t take long to realize that there were deeper issues at stake to do with worthiness, self esteem and being logical. Just like me before meditation, the average man was so stuck in his head that he couldn’t think of anything to say to the girls he was approaching!
The Marshall Meditation Method isn’t some run of the mill meditation course thrown together by a clever marketer, jumping on the Power of Now bandwagon. It’s also not a religious cult, there’s no bowing to the master or agreeing to give up your autonomy to blindly follow some vague esoteric teaching.
I travelled to the ends of the earth, seeking out the best teachers and methods, along the way going down countless dead ends with convoluted systems that aren’t applicable to the modern world and getting ripped off by fraudulent teachers.
I’ve boiled down the techniques that are the simplest to learn and integrate into a normal day and which have the maximum positive effect. The Marshall Meditation Method, once learned can be implemented with as little as 20 minutes focused practice per day, along with doing 1 minute “Micro-Meditations” throughout your day.
You see, the problem with most meditation courses is that they aren’t applicable to everyday life. In the modern world most men don’t have time to spend hours and hours of their day meditating. Even though I’ve attended multiple Vipassana courses and stand by their methods, they suggest at least 2 hours of meditation a day, which simply isn’t realistic in today’s world.
Let’s say you’re a working professional or student working 40-50 hours a week. On top of that I’m sure you have fitness goals you’re working towards, not to mention wanting to approach girls and go on dates. Add in spending time with your friends and family, pursuing hobbies, and of course, sleeping. How on earth are you supposed to add 1-2 hours of meditation each day?
To focus on maximising the benefits of meditation with just 20 minutes of daily practice, plus brief Micro-Meditations throughout your day. All the while giving you tangible real life results in situations that are triggering your fear, anxiety and stress responses.
While this has been fantastic for the few men who have the time and money to invest in my very expensive 7 and 10 day workshops, I’ve received countless requests from men around the world to teach them the types of meditation I’ve used on myself and my live students.
I could see that so many guys are hungry for the bigger picture of true personal change and not just the quick fix of trying to bang drunk chicks.
Since becoming an authority on dating and personal change I’ve come to see the worldwide epidemic of men out there are struggling with anxiety, stress and over analyzing, all the while getting lost on wild goose chases trying to fix it with no success.
So for the last 2 years I’ve been breaking down everything I’ve been teaching for the past 10+ years and put it together in a simple, easy to use format that would empower men to embark on the same transformation that began for me all those years ago in India.
Tools they could learn without having to spend thousands of dollars, sitting month long meditation retreats or traveling to Tibet to learn from wise old gurus.
The result…
I’ve seen other online courses out there and watched guys download a dump of videos onto their hard drive, follow them for the first two days and forget about it a week later.
I’m personally making sure The Marshall Meditation Method is not one of those courses.
I will be with you throughout the process, serving as your mentor for the entire 6 weeks.
During the exclusive webinars (more on that in the bonus section), I’ll personally be holding you accountable for keeping up with the course content to make sure you’re implementing it into your life.
- A core introduction that will explain exactly how to use the course.
You’ll know the exact steps you need to be taking every day of the course to get the most out of your meditations. - An explanation of what meditation REALLY is and why it’s important.
I cut through all of the myths and hype about meditation and explain how it works and why meditation should be a cornerstone of your daily life. - A simple, easy to follow meditation to get you into the present moment.
I’ll guide you through a practice that will raise your self-awareness, bringing you back to the present moment and out of your head. - The fundamentals of good posture.
Most men spend their days sitting in front of a computer and have terrible posture. I’ll show you how to naturally and intuitively adjust your posture to move with more grace and confidence.
Most men in the modern world sit in front of a computer all day at work. Instead of being on their feet and moving their body, they’re hunched over a keyboard, sometimes sitting for hours on end. You’re probably hunched over as you’re reading this right now!
Over time this adds up to chronic neck, shoulder and back pain. Most clients I coach have stiffness well beyond their years and limited flexibility.
To make things worse, it also means the whole sexual center is locked up. If you’re stiff in the hips, you’ll look funny when you walk, have no groove on the dance floor and will likely be terrible in bed.
In Week 2 we’ll cover:
“Do-In”, is an ancient form of Japanese self-massage. Doing this practice daily will help to activate the body’s organ systems and get your blood flowing, especially effective to help you wake up in the morning.
Not only is self-massage an ideal way to relax yourself and get you more in touch with your body, it will also build your awareness on how to relax others through touch. It’s much easier to massage a woman if you have a deeper understanding of the subtleties of touch and making someone feel good.
Over the course of Week 4 you’ll learn:
- An introduction to Do-In Self Massage that covers the key points of this ancient yet powerful process
- A simple 10-minute routine designed to activate your body by progressing through a series of acupressure points
In our 5th week we’ll be solidifying your meditation training through learning the advanced art of Qi – Gong (energy cultivation), a moving meditation similar to Tai Chi.
This practice involves aligning the breath, mental focus and body in movement to develop a deep calm and feeling of embodiment.
Week 5 will uncover:
When I was first creating this course I wanted to make sure it was applicable to daily life. After all, not everyone can sit around meditating for hours on end.
For the final week I’ve created a series of daily routines that combine the various elements of the previous weeks.
In Week 6 we’ll:
- Consolidate the previous 5 weeks of training, teaching you how to bring each practice together and implement them into your daily life
- Reveal two 20 minute routines that mean you don’t have to meditate for 2 hours a day but instead maximise the benefits of meditation in a fraction of the time.
- Learn the Morning Routine designed to prepare you for the day through invigorating your senses, heightening your mental clarity and focus as you stretch your body.
- Learn the Evening Routine that is perfect for winding down from the day, settling your mind, relaxing your body and processing the day’s stress so you drift off into a peaceful sleep.
- Learn “Micro-Meditations” to check in on your awareness and presence throughout the day in as little as 10 seconds.
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